How do I tell the difference between a spiritual mission and a challenge to be avoided? I met a man and instantly felt that we were drawn together to make a difference in the world. Our careers are all about love and service and together we feel we could be of real help. However I have a long term partner who I love. To stay with him would mean not being able to work with the other person. I want to leave but do not want to hurt my husband or trap myself in the life death cycle. How do I know if the other relationship is my mission (this I feel) or if I should choose the role of staying and working on my relationship?

ANSWER:

The truth of the matter comes from inside of you. Don't confuse what you want with what is right. We're here on the earth for only a short time and our time here and how we conduct ourselves, while we are here, is very important. Often we seek greener pastures but upon arriving discover that the pasture we thought is not as green as we would like for it to be.

God takes our vows right or wrong, very seriously! If you love your husband, then stay with him. When we want to do something, we should always evaluate the reasons. What you are describing to me, is the path of least resistance… doing what we want instead of what we should. Having victory over a difficult situation builds character and character is what we need to live in a truly immortal society… that's why we are here. If you love your husband and even you don't stay with him and work it out.

Thanks for your Question….
J.S. Thompson